Leave the noise.Find your way back.
Curated private retreats for women who love women, with separate experiences created intentionally for single women and for couples. Beautiful homes, thoughtful programming and the kind of connection that needs more than a screen.
Private Experiences
A getaway can be beautiful. We want it to mean something too.
Mrs & Mrs has spent years creating spaces where women who love women can feel seen, safe and fully present. Our retreats bring that community into real life through rest, shared experiences, relationship tools and intentional connection.
When the rooms fill, the message is clear.
Our community has asked for more places to meet offline, reconnect without distraction and experience queer love and community in a way that feels intentional. The response to our current retreat calendar reflects that demand.
Choose the experience built for your season.
Singles retreats and couples retreats are separate curated experiences. Each listing below is clearly labeled so you know exactly who the retreat is designed for.
Real-life connection.
Fall Singles Retreat
A private fall escape created for single women who love women to step away from everyday life and spend a long weekend surrounded by community, warmth and intentional connection. The lodge-style home sits in the New York-Massachusetts foothills beside a stream, with the exact address and full itinerary kept private for confirmed guests.
What the weekend is built around
- A private lodge-style home with a private bedroom for every guest
- Private chef, thoughtfully curated meals and one shared dining table
- Heated pool, year-round hot tub, streamside setting and fireside evenings
- Wellness, breathwork and grounding moments built into the weekend
- Games, curated activities and natural conversation starters
- Unhurried time for friendship, chemistry and genuine connection without pressure
Reimagined.
Valentine's Singles Retreat
Spend Valentine's Weekend oceanfront with single women who love women in a thoughtfully curated space built for rest, joy, friendship and intentional connection. This is not four days of forced matchmaking. It is a full retreat experience where connection can happen naturally while you enjoy the house, the destination and the women sharing it with you.
What the weekend includes
- Four days and three nights in a private oceanfront retreat home
- A private bedroom for every guest for the full weekend
- Private chef and meals included throughout the retreat
- Wellness and movement sessions designed for restoration
- Beach walks, sunrise moments and quiet off-season oceanfront time
- Curated connection experiences that make meeting people feel natural
- Meaningful conversation, sisterhood, laughter and room for romantic possibility
- A balanced schedule with enough space to actually enjoy the home and destination
- Stud, stem, masc or masculine-of-center single women who prefer feminine partners.
- Secure, faith-grounded single women who are open to both friendship and romance.
- Women 21+ who are emotionally ready for a shared group experience, comfortable meeting new people and open to intentional connection without forcing an outcome.
If that description sounds like you and you are ready to join us, you do not need to wait for an inquiry response. You can secure one of the final two spots directly with your deposit below.
Come back to each other.
2027 Couples Retreat
A four-night private luxury-estate experience for couples who want meaningful time together without having to plan every detail themselves. The weekend blends rest, play, hospitality and relationship-centered experiences while giving each couple space to reconnect in their own way.
What couples can expect
- A private luxury estate reserved for the Mrs & Mrs group
- Private en-suite accommodations for each participating couple
- Private chef for all meals and elevated shared dining experiences
- Private pool, game room and private theater for relaxed time together
- Guided couples workshops, vulnerability exercises and intimacy conversations
- Complimentary couples massage plus wellness, play and downtime
- Intimate group moments with other couples who value intentional partnership
- A schedule designed to feel full enough to be memorable without feeling crowded
The destination changes. The intention does not.
Every retreat has its own personality, programming and setting. These are the principles that stay consistent.
Beauty
Private homes and thoughtful environments that make it easier to settle in, breathe and be present.
Belonging
Spaces where women who love women do not have to explain themselves before they can simply enjoy themselves.
Intention
Programming designed to support organic connection instead of forcing performative interaction or constant activity.
Care
Small-group hospitality, clear communication and details that help guests feel considered from arrival through departure.
Missed a room? Get closer to the next one.
Join the list for a sold-out experience or raise your hand early for future Mrs & Mrs retreats. If you match the final-openings description for the Valentine's Singles Retreat, use the direct deposit button in that retreat listing above.
Joining a list does not guarantee a reservation. If a space opens or a new retreat launches, our team can use this information to contact best-fit interested guests first. The Valentine's direct deposit option is separate from this waitlist form.
The right collaborators help turn a beautiful weekend into an unforgettable one.
We welcome aligned chefs, wellness professionals, facilitators, brands, sponsors, venues, gifting partners, media teams and creative collaborators who understand the community we serve and want to contribute with intention.
Sold out should not mean you missed your chance forever.
As new destinations and dates are confirmed, priority-list guests will be among the first people we can contact. Choose the experience that fits you now so you do not have to discover the next retreat after everyone else does.
Join Future Retreat PriorityFor individual guests who are single and open to connection.
For two partners attending together to reconnect and reset.
Before you join us.
Are the Singles and Couples Retreats separate?
Yes. Singles Retreats are created for individual guests who are single. Couples Retreats are created for two partners attending together. The programming, rooming and overall experience are designed differently for each group.
Who are Mrs & Mrs retreats created for?
Our retreat experiences are created for women who love women. Guests must be 21 or older. Individual retreat pages and confirmation materials will include any additional eligibility details.
What happens if a sold-out retreat has a cancellation?
When a space becomes available, the Mrs & Mrs team may contact people on the applicable waitlist. Joining the waitlist does not guarantee placement and availability can move quickly.
Does joining a waitlist require payment?
No. The waitlist form on this page is free and does not reserve a room. The currently open Valentine's Singles Retreat is different: women who match the final-openings description may secure an available spot directly with a deposit using the booking button above.
Can I book one of the final Valentine's Singles Retreat spots now?
Yes, if you fit the guest description listed in the Valentine's retreat section and are ready to join us. There are currently two spots remaining and the secure deposit button in that listing takes you directly to checkout.
Can my brand or business partner with a retreat?
Yes. We consider aligned chefs, wellness providers, facilitators, sponsors, brands, gifting partners, venues, media and experience providers. Use the collaboration form above and tell us what you would like to build with us.
Where can I see retreat updates and behind-the-scenes content?
Follow @mrsandmrsretreat on Instagram for retreat announcements, countdowns, destination moments, guest updates and what comes next.
The house, the countdown and the moments in between.
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